We are so sorry for your loss. If there's anything we can do to support you at this time, please let me know.
To change status in Nurture, please go to your Me (iOS)/More (Android) tab, and click "Choose Another Status". Click the Healing from a Loss status. This should prompt messaging in the app to help support you through this experience. If you still see the same status, please log out and back into the app. This will cause a server refresh and should initiate the status.